Are you lingering over the thought of ‘what if’ and ‘what could it be’? Are you having the occasional feeling of guilt regarding decisions that you already made while you are going forward with your decision regardless? Stop.
Our path in life is not pre-designed. Is just as contoured as our thoughts. There are two things that will take us where we want to go:
- Know where you’re going
- Stick to the plan
There are times when two paths can lead to the same destination. Each road we take is a new experience – different landscape, different people that we’ll bump into, different constructs. Would we go down a road half way through and then drive around to take the other street because we’re very curious of what’s the other option like? Unlikely. But if you’re feeling is so strong that give you the power of going through with the change, do it. Otherwise pack it and dispose of it together with all the other possibilities of how your life could have been.
And remember, there is no right decision, there is just the obvious decision given the time and circumstances you live in.